I'm NOT a Gentleman, this is why...

 

There is a humongous amount of information on the web about being a gentleman, and when writing an article this becomes a bit of a problem, however after reading quite a bit I managed to summarize the general conception in four categories and came with my personal description of what a gentleman is and how he should behave.

Sad thing is... I discovered that I am NOT a gentleman (yet), there are various things I have to improve in order to earn that title, Is it worth it? It is for me, it's a modus vivendi, a way of living and doing things gracefully. 

Do you consider yourself a gentleman? Check out this list and find out. Remember, you have to score ALL things on this list: 

 

 1. Social skills and behavior: A gentleman...
 
- has not good but great manners on the table.
- keeps a PG-13 language.
- takes success humbly and defeat gracefully. 
- offers to help when help is needed.
- is always punctual.
- treats bosses and subordinates with the same respect.
- returns the favor.
- pays his debts.
- knows that there is always an exception to a rule.


2. Appearance: A gentleman...

- cleans up after himself.
- wears flattering clothes (Regardless his fashion style).
- possesses at least one well-made dark suit.
- smells good.
- never slouches.

3. Personal relationships: A gentleman...

- is esplendid with his signicant other.
- makes plans with his significant other.
- always keeps his word.
- never kiss and tells.
- pays for a round of beers when out with his friends. 
- knows when to speak his mind and when to remain silent.
- gives advices only when they are requested. 
- gives compliments sincerely and often.
- listens. 

4. Tradition:

Now, before looking at this last segment, keep in mind that the statements here may sound sexist and/or outdated, but some of the things described are THE "trademarks" of  Gentlemanhood and they have endured throughout time and are also aknowlegded by almost EVERYONE, regardless, age, gender  or sexual preference.

A gentleman...

- opens the door.

- has a firm handshake.
- gives his jacket.
- gives up his seat.

And finally.. A gentleman always pays on a first date.

So, this I considered as the most "universal" list of gentlemenhood, 90% of them are merely attitude and few of them required money. I wish I would ellaborate on every single one of the points exposed, maybe in the future I will!

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Free for All

It has been a while since the last time I posted, but I have a good reason, my office job has changed it's way of work so these past days have been very time consuming.

I started this week with some cool shots from Finland! It is so rewarding when customers show their love!

facing dragons

custom made spartan bracelet

Meanwhile at the jewelry workshop, tons of stuff are happening, good stuff!

Brass anchors and silver skull

New rubber molds are coming and new designs with them! Making my own beads it's what will eventually set me apart from others bracelet makers, what will make my brand special and unique.

But... workshop work is not the only work! (I wish!) showing the products is a great part of it, share them on all social media and make sure to reach as many people as possible. That's why it is so important to have a little fun!

 

"Don't let any part of your dream job to be boring or dull"

Much work is coming, ideas are materializing, organizing is the key, everyone says, and I thing it's true! Time is precious!